On our last trip to Paris, my afternoon uniform was a maxi dress with sneakers for a day exploring and then just switching out to heels for dinner, so this black and white polka dot number caught my eye
Jewel tones remain the strongest and most reliable color choices for black tie occasions because they were essentially designed for formal evening settings
Here's a few others including: Manx hand piecing/quilting from the Isle of Man , Color and Textile Inspiration in Mexico City , and Sewing and Embroidery Inspiration in Paris .
Once you have these down and are comfortable with fitting them and wearing them, you will then have much more confidence to start moving on to more stylistic touches and accessories
And only use as much dressing as you want to for the salad
The most flattering sexy gowns use intentional design details to enhance length, shape and confidence